(Still Under Construction) We are a couple in our early 40's looking for flirty friends, and see what happens from there. We have experience with couples as individuals, but not as a couple. We aren't rushing into bed or anything. We don't have perfect bodies, who does. We are active, but carrying a few extra pounds. He is heteroflexible (AFF doesn't offer that as an orientation) She is bi. WE are DDF, non-smokers (she does vape, but not obnoxiously like these days), and social drinkers. We are part of a poly triad, but the other member is not involved in our relationship. Day to day interactions, yes, but two separate romantic relationships. One purpose of our relationship is to explore more non vanilla things.