Heads up! I'm still around for conversation but not for play. If you are looking for play, I wish you the best! I’m here on AFF because I enjoy sharing exploration in a soft and intentional way. I believe that great physical ecstasy start between the ears, with our clothes on. Wonderful foreplay starts mentally, then moves to our bodies. If you are looking for an encounter that starts with our minds, with banter and great conversation and wit (on both sides please) then lets chat. Further, if you are looking for a youthful, very athletic, supple and imaginative partner, please reach out. To be clear, I am using AFF to explore more MFM or find FFM right now. If you are a single male, I wish you the best, but this is not me. Overall, my partners tell me that I'm good at this. I'd like to get better and do even more. If you are MFM or FFM, then please drop me a line. You should consider me to be straight but not narrow, I am quite comfortable with male to male contact during a three way. I am experienced with lesbians and have been told that I am very good there. By the way, I actually am an endurance athlete, in great shape and confident in and comfortable with myself. You probably guessed that already, but I’d rather be clear. To reach new heights with me, you'll need to comfortable with a guy who is very fit, as well as an intelligent guy who enjoys exploration in the mind and in the body. I get that not everyone is, and I am fine with that. But if you are not also strong from within, you will not find yourself comfortable with me. Otherwise, you’ll find me easy to be with, very big on respect, and very big on open communication. One of my friends calls it forceful and not pushy, and I think that is right. I am ‘large-and-in-charge’ but not at all wanting to control. Just the opposite, I want to explore with you - not over you. And I want to be authentic with you as I am with myself. With me you get straight and open answers. It is how I like to operate. As I said, I think that great sex starts between the ears, so to me how we approach each other is just as important to me as how we do in bed. In you I will value banter, a great sense of humor, authenticity, and a really nice smile. I melt for a really nice smile that starts with the eyes. It reflects you from within. What else do I want? DDF, drama free (I am not here to interfere with what you have that works) and people who take care of themselves. If you do, you’ll know who you are, and why that matters. So my perfect match starts at the eyes, not the body. I enjoy a great body, but when I meet you in per, it will be for what is behind the eyes. I hope that makes sense. And if you just want me for my body (and I do get that sometimes) please don't be offended if I ask for more from you. And offer to give you much more in return. Write if you are interested, and let me know about you. I don't need to see your genitalia, tell me about your mind and your wit. Thank you very much.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, I'm well endowed, so if I don't fit (and it happens)
we have to

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, What is most erotic is what is between the ears

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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