I am an active and generous person. Unfortunately, my wife has lost all interest in anything besides the routine (TV, shopping, etc ). I am a professional photographer, and I take photography trips all over the country, and have traveled to Malaysia and Indonesia. If interested, I can take boudoir photos of you. Unfortunately, my erotic lifestyle needs to be kept from my wife, or it would break her heart. She has been frigid (no sex at all) for almost 15 years, and it's becoming intolerable for me. Maybe I should leave her, but I promised for better or worse, and I love her unconditionally. I would like to travel more, but do not feel comfortable leaving her alone for more than one or two nights at a time. I'm available mornings and afternoons most weekdays, which is perfect if you want to get to know me with outdoor activities, or an informal lunch. Discretion is important.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, finger in ass

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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