I should say that I’m not looking for just a hookup, but rather, the right man..(woman??) I make decisions based on instinct and the vibe of a person - chemistry. I am looking for something more long term, if the situation is right. I love movies and good tv, reading, nerd fan of Star Wars, Lord of the Rings, Game of Thrones, horror, fantasy, science fiction, historical, etc Being an INFJ personality is hard when it comes to finding people who understand you, and that you can let your guard down around. I respond best with men who like to be in charge.. but who also are comforting , protective, and would enjoy a “light” version of a D/s relationship. I guess you could say I have a a couple “Daddy issues”, but nothing that most girls who didn’t get much attention from their Daddies would feel. I like adult good streaming tv, movies of every kind and laughing at the ding dongs on Dancing with the stars, American Ido, etc. I also like to have deep conservations about pretty much anything. I am hoping to find someone who I click with, and can be a calming soothing presence. Who gives good hugs :-) It would be great to find someone who understands Meyers Briggs personalities types…. Especially since I am one of the “strangest” types- INFJ. I love dirty jokes, raunchy movies, action and thrillers, adult comedy, horror, historical drama….. bioflicks. I loved Spartacus, yet also enjoyed Downton Abbey. I am a strange one, but also silly and fun and sensitive and craving approval. I want to feel safe mentally, emotionally, and physically. My availability would be sporadic, especially at first, but if there is a good connection, that could increase

My Ideal Person An alpha male who would enjoy a light version of a D/s relationship, and who would make me feel completely safe and cared for. And must be willing to be discreet.